Great question! This is something best worked on early in a relationship. Remember – the way each of you submit personally to God is the spiritual discipline your children will “catch” from you! Not always what we SAY but what we DO! Being on the SAME PAGE takes discussion, prayer, and intentionality.
What do you want the spiritual outcomes in your family to be?
The atmosphere of how you treat each other?
The core values of your home?
Some resources:
Day #19 in the Work Book: Teaching self-control and family values
Day #20 in the Work Book: Developing Character
Day #21 in the Work Book: Developing Love